In a now-viral submit, one mom shared that she denied her daughter's request to make use of her school fund to assist her boyfriend observe his "desires."
Redditor, u/throwae_69, wrote concerning the scenario on the subreddit "Am I The A**Gap" in a submit that has now been voted on over 10,000 instances.
She stated it began after her daughter not solely acquired accepted to her dream faculty but additionally obtained a full scholarship.
"Once we discovered concerning the scholarship, we agreed that we'd nonetheless give her the cash to pay for different issues that she would wish in school, comparable to housing, meals, and so on.," the mom wrote. "Properly she got here house yesterday form of unhappy. I requested her what was the matter. She stated that she was not going to go to varsity anymore."
The mom defined that her daughter's boyfriend, Bryan, had "sat her down" and instructed her to not go to varsity and to "await him" of their city.
After discussing the matter together with her mom, the daughter ended up asking for her school fund to assist help her boyfriend's desires.
Earlier this month Newsweek reported on one other viral submit the place a mom put her foot down in funding elements of her daughter's boyfriend's life.
Within the submit, she shared that she is just not keen on her daughter's boyfriend and after he just lately crashed a lunch that was simply imagined to be a mother-daughter meal, she declined to pay for his meal.
"The invoice got here and I instructed Simon and Christine that I used to be solely paying for myself and Christine, Simon requested why was that and I instructed him as a result of I did not invite him," the Redditor wrote.
The meal ended with the mom leaving the couple to determine it out and a rift was created between them.
Within the submit from u/throwae_69, she defined that she is just not a fan of her daughter's boyfriend calling him "impolite" and "disrespectful." She additionally stated he comes from a household who's "very properly off."
Although Bryan is enrolled in school himself, the mom stated he doesn't have a lot of a plan for the longer term.
She stated when he sat down together with her daughter he instructed her that his mother and father would help them and that he didn't really feel comfy together with her going to high school so far-off.
"He additionally stated that it made him really feel unmanly when she has a set course for her future which can give her an excellent life, whereas he has none," the mom wrote. "After she instructed me what was occurring, I did not decide immediately, however I knew that I wasn't going to only let my daughter throw away her future like this."
The Redditor wrote that after denying her daughter her school fund to make use of on her boyfriend, the 2 went forwards and backwards concerning the seriousness of the couple's relationship. Finally, she stated, her daughter admitted to not seeing a future with him.
"From what I've realized, she broke it off with Bryan and he has been calling nom[sic] cease, crying and begging to talk to her. I really feel very responsible, and kind of like an AH. Am I?"
Commenters on the submit supported the mom's determination and referred to as Byran "poisonous" and "abusive."
One commenter stated, "100 [percent] he is abusive and controlling. No companion ought to attempt to derail an attainable dream. He's threatened by her and her objectives."
"The reality of the matter is that Bryan is poisonous and abusive. She completely loves him, however he clearly does not love her, as a result of he is keen to wreck her future with a purpose to really feel in management," one other commenter wrote. "You probably did the precise factor. You are a beautiful mum or dad. On the finish of the day, most males will come and go in her life, however you may all the time be there."
Newsweek reached out to u/throwae_69 for remark.
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